"Shortcomings are inevitable on both parties since they are still separate individual being in mutual. It is here where the power of Cs' come in action!"
I believe in any relationship, two Cs' are needed in order for it to grow and flourish. Compromise and Communication. Dictionary defines them as follows:Compromise
~ a: to come to agreement by mutual concession b: to find or follow a way between extremes
Communication
~ a process by which information is exchanged between individuals through a common system of symbols, signs, or behavior
I personally defines compromise as give and take divided by personal differences multiplied to the tenth power of understanding. It is never easy to give in into something you have grown doing your way. However, the satisfaction you'll get in lowering your pride and dissolving your prejudices, I must say is priceless.
On the other hand, communication is another vital factor needed in steering a strong relation. But it should not just be an ordinary exchange of thoughts. It should be effective. In our current times, the medium to use barely depends on one's preference. But among all the means to convey, I prefer the personal means. Its sincere, direct, simple and not to mention cost effective :) You just have to open your mouth and speak out your mind. That's it!
However, with such simple task, I can't help but wonder why I can't execute it properly. No problem with my vocal anatomy. The thought is there. Sentences already composed. Even simulated to have the proper counter reaction should the end result failed. But then again, voicing them out seems like all dead air.
"Action speaks louder than words". This saying is not applicable to me. I tend to act too much, that I unconsciously forget to say those three simple words. Words that make a whole lot of difference. Utterance that starts a finish and finishes a start.
Currently, this is the predicament I am working on... to be more vocal on my ideas. To support my action plan, I am referencing a text message which mySungit sent last 16th of July. And it goes like...
"... Itng nung atn kng buri ishare, ali ka hesitnt. Emu isipan na sbyan da non sense makanyn.Or tng lako mu tng isipan mung mareject ka..."
Shortcomings are inevitable on both parties since they are still separate individual being in mutual. It is here where the power of Cs' come in action!
2 comments:
Masyado ka kaseng mautak..... ;) Magin bobo ka naman paminsan minsan... sometimes u need to be "bobodelish" to be appreciated... Love is baduy... hindi pinag iisipan yan... hehehe... Im sure everythng you do will be appreciated.... goodluck
What you need is to turn on the Attraction Level of your MySungit to you.
You don't need her to like you...those are for friends only.
You must make her feel attracted to you and do you know how to do this?
1. Be man enough - Show confidence on everything you do. Show authority that you can lead her to happiness. The power is yours to control and not the other way around.
2. Be funny - to much emotion is boring. She will run away from you if you will be like that always...to much "I love you" is a no no.
3. Be unpredictable - don't tell her all of your plans. Surprise her and never say "YES" on all of her brattiness attitude.
Being unpredictable means being exciting...you will be able to turn on her attraction level to you big time when you do this.
However, don't overdue it for you might look like an insane person.
4. Give her the gift of missing you - don't text her all the time or call her every minute. If you do not, she will think that you are too needy, like a momma's boy.
Momma's boy are no no to a hot, young woman.
5. When you talk to her look at her eyes and not on her body - she will appreciate you better that way. Eye contact is vital...
Well, I am an anonymous person and I am quite fascinated with your blog. Do my suggestions and you will get positive results.
Be a man with confidence and funny at the same time. You will see magical results...indeed.
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