Im the second type

"Love is the one thing that will make these paralleled destiny intersect. Soul mates are Divine. Loved learned ones are Blessed..."

I just recently confirmed that I am the second type. I am not the soul mate type. Well that is the first type. A soul mate. The kind of person where once meet, a deep natural affinity is constituted. The love at first sight type. Almost no requirement since all is already given. However, this type I must say are rare. Most I know are found only in books and television. Some exist in real life though. But the chance of meeting one is one in a billionth. Nevertheless, this are not hopeless cases.

Being on the second category is not easy. I personally defined it as the loved learned ones. As opposed to the first type, this side requires more than just soul. Since there is no initial attraction, one has to build itself the aura of predisposition. The fireworks to catch notice. The blast to make the roaring sound of "I am here!".

Resources are usually maximized. Exhausted to minimal level. Moreover, some circumstances even requires a metamorphosis. Here, the sad part comes in. Becoming something you are not. Adjustments are necessary in order to fit in. Liking things you dislikes and forgetting things you normally do. Most of the time, actions taken are a make or break situation. And they usually break in the end. That maybe be due to the reason that you were misinterpreted or simply because you executed your plan poorly.

I would not like to sound prejudiced. Besides, this things are like anything else we have in life. They have their pros and cons. At the end of the day, it would not matter which category you fall in. What matter is, if you can answer YES! to the question, "Have I given my best shot?". Love is the one thing that will make these paralleled destiny intersect. Soul mates are Divine. Loved learned ones are Blessed...

Where did you fall?